Sunday 10 June 2007

What's the wife?

Somebody asked me, what's the wife? what's meaning of the marriage? i didn't answer appropriate, although i've too much to say!!

anyway, my answer
following


Answer:

1- One soul in two bodies.

2- I'm sure, she will save our money, take care of our home & kids, when i traveled or go out.

3- The person who i like to talk with her 24 hours daily, so that after i finish my work go home back quickly.

4- The person who make me happy, when i just see him.

5- The person who i know that she is tired, Although i didn't see her at the moment.

6- The only person who i know that she has some troubles, just if i look to her eyes. (get messages).


7- The only persons who i can exchange eye's messages with him.

8- She don't need to explain to me many things, because i understand how she thinking. I don't need to explain to her also.

9- The only person who i'd be glad to incentive her to be better in her work & life.

10- The only person who is endowment.

11- The only person who can cheer with her smile.

12- The only person who i feel felicitousness & beatitude with her.

13- The only person who we can cogitate together.

14- The person who i trust when she forming of an opinion, due to her realism.

15- The only person who feel peace beside me.
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16 - .....
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17 - ...........
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more, more, more & more




i'm arduous now, may i'll come later to continue, browse this post also





Update



There's a big difference between "female friend" & "female colleague", female colleague who can help each other in certain fields ( work, study, ..... etc), but "female friend" actually there's nothing called like that ... "the friendship" generally is secrets keeping, time giving, hurm himself instead of you, composure giving, ....etc. So, it should be between (female-female) or (male-male), otherwise it'll levelling to anguish of mind & torture.



the person who can disscus the secrets together, who can give you more time, who can help you any time, who knows more about you ... of course that's not possible between some man & woman ... may be "female friend" = the future wife, if that admissible in some societies.

7 comments:

Anonymous said...

great subject
just i found some mistakes in gram.
mmmmmmmm
try to find it :)
Sorry for my bad english that cant help me to exprees what i want to say
really
Good job

محمود بهجت said...

jazak ALALH khayeer
mmmm
about grammer mistakes, i know there r some mistakes because i don't follow any grammer in any language... juast write as we talk...
if u can show me the mistakes

Anonymous said...

whats wife ?
how can you answer ?
thats points in the end of your answer just like askay
who ask wahats wife ?
whats husband ??
may be in the future the answer can be exept a name ..
i cant see wife any one , only (x)
but others say .. no husband no wife its we .. i cant explain that relation
al hamdu le allah that we are wives and husbnds not only afriend today but tomorrow no one know
really its the greatest bond at alllllllllll

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really geat words deserve to be read
jazak ALALH khayeer

asmaa said...

i feel proud when i see that man say these words about wife
man can reach by his understanding what's wife mean
really i'm so happy that u understand wnat is wife mean
one soul and 2 bodies
wife who can exchange with her eye's talking
really not all men understand your talking
in my opinion when man reach real meaning of wife
and what's marriage mean
i think his life will be different
also i will add something about meaning of wife
wife is an angel that will take u to paradise
will help you to be nearer and nearer to allah
i hope all men understand all what u say about wife
really very nice topic
gazak allah khayeran

هبة النيــل said...

15- The only person who feel peace beside me.


It is the secret and the "core" of the wife-husband relationship.

It is the same meaning that is mentioned in the "Quraan Karim: {وَمِنْ آيَاتِهِ أَنْ خَلَقَ لَكُم مِّنْ أَنفُسِكُمْ أَزْوَاجاً لِّتَسْكُنُوا إِلَيْهَا وَجَعَلَ بَيْنَكُم مَّوَدَّةً وَرَحْمَةً إِنَّ فِي ذَلِكَ لَآيَاتٍ لِّقَوْمٍ يَتَفَكَّرُونَ }الروم21"

Really

It is a genius phylosophy

Anonymous said...

First time to me in ur blog, but i think it wouldn't be the last,
i really admire ur words specially this Post,

محمود بهجت said...

you are most welcome as well
:D